Abstract | Današnje doba, odnosno suvremenost koja nas stiže svakim danom sve brže i brže, donosi sa sobom i niz negativnih pojava i posljedica. Naime, sve češće putem medija svjedočimo raznim oblicima nasilja koji se događaju oko nas. Nasilje u školama i među mladima, pa tako i nasilje unutar obitelji. Obitelj, gdje bi se trebali osjećati prihvaćeno, voljeno i sigurno, mjesto gdje bi trebala biti svačija mirna luka, nažalost sve češće i mnogima to zapravo obitelj nije. Bliže rečeno, obitelj postaje ono nešto hladno i okrutno za pojedince koji su izloženi i žive unutar takvih obitelji. Obitelji gdje dolazi do vrijeđanja, ignoriranja, iskorištavanja, odnosno jednom riječju nasilja. Zašto dolazi do nasilja unutar obitelji? Razmišljanja su vrlo različita kao i niz čimbenika koji za posljedicu imaju nasilje u obitelji. Loša i nepogodna financijska situacija unutar obitelji, teško zdravstveno stanje, razne psihičke bolesti, manjak povjerenja, slaba komunikacija među članovima obitelji, razne tragedije koje pogode obitelj, sve su to uzročnici pojave nasilja u obitelji jer se, nažalost, u današnje vrijeme sve manje ljudi zapravo zna nositi s neizbježnim životnim nedaćama. Nakon toga dolaze nepoželjne reakcije i sve je nekako povezano jedno s drugim. Dogodi se nešto loše, pojedinac reagira ne znajući se nositi s događajem, prijeđe granicu te dolazi do posljedice – nasilja. Oblika nasilja ima nekoliko i svaki vjerojatno boli jednakim intenzitetom, barem ako gledamo sa psihološke strane da ti bliska osoba nanosi bilo kakav oblik boli i prouzrokuje patnju. |
Abstract (english) | Today`s age, that is, modernity, which is reaching us faster and faster every day, brings with it a number of negative phenomena and consequences. Namely, more and more often through the media we witness various forms of violence happening around us. Violence in schools and among young people, as well as violence within the family. Family, where one should feel accepted, loved and safe, a place where everyone should have a peaceful harbor, unfortunately more and more often, and for many, it is not really a family. In short, the family becomes something cold and cruel for individuals who are exposed to and live within such families. Families where there is insult, ignoring, exploitation, that is, in one word, violence. Why does violence occur within the family? Thoughts are very different, as are a number of factors that result in domestic violence. A bad and unfavorable financial situation within the family, serious health conditions, various mental illnesses, less trust, poor communication between family members, various tragedies that affect the family are all the causes od the occurrence of violence in the family, because unfortunately nowadays fewer people actually know how to cope with the inevitable adversities od life. After that, unwanted reactions come and everything is somehow connected to each other. Something bad happens, the individual reacts without knowing how to deal with the event, crosses the line and the consequences are violence. There are several forms of violence and each of them probably hurts with equal intensity, at least if we look at it from the psychological point of view that a close person inflicts any form of pain on you and causes suffering. |